Championing the Bad Guy

February 11, 2012 permalink

CAS did not break up this family, an unfaithful wife did. But once broken, CAS sided with the adulteress to humiliate the father and his entire family.

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Stacey Gauthier-Biekx To make a long story short in June 2009 my brother was arrested from his home and charged with an assault he did not commit. His then wife of less then one year had her mother call 911 saying that he had hit her, threatened to kill her as well as kidnap the baby. They were in an argument at the time but at no time in the relationship was my brother EVER physically abusive, threaten death or kidnapping. She told police that he had never hit her before but now all of a sudden he was punching her in the face. She had no evidence eg.bruises. The police testified in a questioning manner that he had never seen a woman more distraught. A DRAMA QUEEN is she! The 911 call came only after my brother called my mom and dad to pick him up as he needed to get away from her. By the time my parents arrived my brother was being hauled up to Windsor Jail. He was denied even the basic right to provide a statement. From that day forward his x wife (whom we thought we were close to) banished all forms of communication with EVERYONE in our family. Our heads were spinning as we knew that my brother was not capable of hitting women. Unfortunately with Ontario’s 0 tolerance policy on domestic abuse despite no signs of assault he was charged, hauled off to jail and kicked out of his home. Over a year later he was vindicated in a court of law where the judge clearly spotted the inconsistency in her stories. A week after the so called assault his super sleuth sister (me) uncovered by sheer luck the fact that she was engaging in a sexual affair with a younger man. Facebook evidence of the affair was useful as the sexual conversations about how great the sex was were clearly visible on this guy’s wall. She began talking to him 3 weeks prior to the charges being laid. They posted pictures with him, her and the baby in my brother’s house the week after. Privacy settings people!! All along she is purging herself in court saying that he was only a friend and nothing more. The printed evidence we have clearly shows an affair. This guy within a couple of weeks was referring to this married women and my brothers daughter as HIS GIRLS! His x has a history of multiple relationships with men as well as a childhood which was unfortunately filled with abuse at the hands of her father as well as being kidnapped by her father as a child. My brother and his x had a beautiful daughter together she is now 3 years old. Since June 2009 he has been fighting for his right to be her father. Despite the not Guilty verdict his x`s pitbull lawyer conspires with her client to basically demolish any fathers rights by putting him on trial over and over portraying him as a angry monster that is not suitable to see his daughter unsupervised. In the court room his x smirks so often I’d like to vomit and sticks to her story that she really wants her child to have a relationship with her father but he is just so unstable and angry. Just another of her many lies. My brother is 30 years old and went into his marriage with the best of intentions. He had a daughter who is the love of his life and the last 3 years have been an emotional rollercoaster for him and my family. As I mentioned besides seeing her in court she refuses to speak to anyone in my family including my brother since the day she made false charges of assault. My brother has been torn apart. His property, (anything of value) was stolen (police and the courts think because they were married she was somehow entitled to his personal property eg coin collection, tax returns + much more including memorabilia from friends deaths, childhood video tapes, his wedding band) The possessions he did get back were packaged in garbage bags at the end of the driveway to be picked up with police escorts. Unfortunately the lawyers he has had so far have played safe within a system that has made her completely unaccountable for her actions. Adultery, theft, false charges of an assault, and kidnapping of a child are rewarded. The case against my brother is based on the fact that he has reacted to a major trauma emotionally and at times with anger. CAS unfortunately was called in automatically and from day one sided with the mother. My brother was labelled the abuser and when he refused to cooperate with CAS domestic violence classes he was told he did not respect authority. When he cries the first time seeing his daughter in over a year he is accused of being to emotional. Everything is twisted around to make the shoe fit. The shoe however will never fit, it is not his shoe. He has however given in to seeing a therapist whom CAS referred him and paid for. His counsellor has been of help to him in how to deal with the loss of his beautiful daughter. His counsellor has testified on his behalf and has even offered to pickup the child and supervise visits. This takes us to where we are 3 years later. His x and her lawyer have done everything to paint him as a threat to his daughter. Unfortunately my brother has swore at CAS and called his x a bitch outside of the court room and has been short with the supervisors at the access center. Their pens and paper write down scrambled information and their mouths offer unwanted advice on which toy she would like to play with. Swearing at people was not a bright move and obviously played right into the hands of the other team. As he changed her diapers the man stood a foot away watching. My brother asked him to back up and give some space. He later complained to the supervisor as he was uncomfortable and did not like that the man was standing their so close staring at his daughter. I am not implying this man was a pedophile. My brother found it creepy. My brother is not one to mince words or play games. At this moment they are set to go back to court. Because of disagreements with the supervised centers supervisor his use of the center was temporarily suspended. He has now been on the waiting list for months. My brother jumps through hoops like a show dog but his tail is not between his legs. He can no longer accept being a stranger in a strange place with people treating him strangely in front of his daughter. CAS sides with the mother and believes supervision is necessary. He has adjusted to playing the game. In the past 3 years he has seen his daughter less then 48 hours in total. He was robbed of close to a year with her after being unjustly charged. My brother is being portrayed as a monster because he has refused to admit to things he did not do, or taken classes he did not need. He has questioned AUTHORITY as to why his daughter has been kidnapped from him, and did not find that his daughter’s life and future is a game. He is a kind, funny, smart, loving and an amazing guy. Up to the point in his life when he was repeatedly conned and bullied by a system and a women that sees no purpose for him in his daughter’s life he was happy and together. My parents have been approved on 2 separate occasions as suitable supervisors yet throughout the mother and her accomplice lawyer deny anyone in my family any access to her. We love her more than words can say! We have always been a close family. I could not of asked for a better childhood or more dedicated parents. They were parents that piled us up in the van 2 weeks a summer and took us camping. I went to Florida and Disney Word 3 times as a child! We were always with extended family, cooking, laughing and enjoying our lives. This situation has taken a toll on all of us. Grandma and Grandpa have been completely eliminated at the request of a lying manipulative woman and her henchmen. The total lack of empathy these people show to me is criminal. We are 100% open to speaking with the mother with 100% civility. We do not approve of her actions but for our beautiful Angel we will do anything. We unlike her wish to put the child first. This child is missing half of her and it is a very good half and she deserves her right to be her full self. The road has been long and it seems that hope is misguided in a system that does not hold a fathers love as a priority. Looking for any advise that you can give me because to us giving up and giving in is not an option. I have attempted contact with the mother via 3 phone calls and 4 letters in 3 years. On my last phone call before Christmas she actually picked up (she was not looking at her caller Id.) I was immediately told that if I had anything to say to her I should call her lawyer and she hung up. Her lawyer did not return my call. We were all then accused of stalking her. Did I mention that during their short marriage she and I were the very best of friends. Funny how everyone else under the sun can spend time with my brother’s daughter besides him and us. Her Plenty of fish boyfriends can visit. Why can’t we? HELP AND ADVISE PLEASE…..He will be back in court by the end of the month for more of the same and the judge will listen to the mother and her lawyer make up a zillion reasons why his counsellor is not a suitable supervisor. My brother represents him self so any FREE legal plans or advice would be amazing. Court costs are piling up and his money is nil. Thanks for taking the time to listen.

February 10, 2011

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